Before we get started, the biggest thing to keep in mind when it comes to manifesting is this: You are in charge of your life. Here are the four essential steps that you must take to manifest the partner you’ve always wanted. Follow these steps, keep your eye on the desired outcome, and anything you want can be yours. The problem is that most of us don’t want to commit to finding love for one reason: We don’t want to be let down.We’re scared that if we don’t find an incredible relationship, then we’ll really be sad! But not committing to love is the exact thing that is keeping it from happening. Any achievement starts with a commitment. Right now, commit yourself to finding love, and you’re halfway there. So, what qualities do you desire in a partner? Someone who is kind, loving and adores you? Someone who wants to make a difference in the world? Someone who believes in you? Great. Make a list of all the qualities you want, then (this is the important part) feel who this person is. When you can feel the person who has the qualities that you love (before he or she shows up), then you’re getting closer to him or her being here. If you want a loving partner, then you have to be a loving person in the world. If you want a partner who is driven, you have to have drive yourself! Knowing this, look at your list from Step 2 and ask yourself, “Am I embodying these qualities, too?” If not, you have a little work to do. Where people typically go wrong with this step is we want a person take care of us in a way that we aren’t taking care of ourselves. For example, you want someone who thinks your beautiful because you don’t believe you’re beautiful. Or you want someone who offers you security, because you don’t feel secure yourself. This will never work. Instead of trying to fill what’s missing in your life with another person, be the things you desire. This will speed up the process of finding the right person. This simply means that you have to feel fabulous now, if you want to manifest a relationship that feels fabulous! You have to feel appreciated and cherished now, if you want to feel that way with a partner! Where people go wrong with this step is they believe that a relationship will make them feel a certain way. Again, this is using a relationship to fill a hole within yourself. I believe this is the biggest reason there is so much dissatisfaction in relationships today; we unintentionally use other people to make ourselves feel whole. And it never, ever works. The biggest secret to creating a life you love is that it happens from the inside-out. When you find passion, drive, beauty, and magnificence within yourself, then the whole world starts to experience you that way, too. And this is how you manifest everything that you desire. You recognize that it starts within you. Believe in yourself. Believe in love. Believe in having the relationship you want. When you know that you can be, do and have anything you desire, there’s no choice but for it to show up in front of you.
