These empaths sometimes feel called to act as the healer in their romantic relationships. While not necessarily a bad thing, this tendency can lead to unfulfilling romantic pairings if left unchecked. It may cause empaths to unwittingly attract unsuitable potential partners, simply because they sense that they need healing. Or it can lead empaths to feel drained and like they constantly need to help, improve, or “rescue” their mate. It’s also worth noting that you should not date someone for their potential. Commit to a partner based on who they are now, not who you hope they can be in the future. Empaths can easily go into someone else’s energy or emotional experience, which requires sensitive people to stay centered and keep healthy boundaries. Respect yourself enough to step back from time to time so you don’t become drained or ungrounded. You can put this urge to use by taking a class on energy work, counseling, nutrition, or any other topic that wakes up the healer in you. You can also volunteer with animals, nature, or humans that need healing to honor, develop, and explore this important part of you.
